weekend oracle: DISCERNING SELF-CARE
What does it mean to be discerning with how we revitalize, practice care for, ourselves?
Let us be honest with ourselves about what we need. Let us deeply examine the state of our boundaries (too closed, too open, non-existent?). Let us get real with ourselves when we use the pretext of self-care to avoid shit we need to take care of. Let us have both boring and fun self-care. Let us avoid mistaking consumerism with caring for ourselves. Let us also treat ourselves!
Let us care for our communities and also open ourselves up to community that cares for us.